Diversification

​I think most people seek a balanced life, or at least the appearance of balance. Generally, it is good to feel fulfilled and not ground down by life. Becoming proficient at grappling takes up a lot of time and oftentimes throws that balance off. I rearranged my life around grappling and by no means am I world class. Accountability is good, working towards a goal is good, but unless you have a plan to rule the Jiu Jitsu world, it’s okay to do other things. Be consistent in your grappling if you want to see results, for a hobbyist three days a week is enough, but also go to concerts, hang out with friends, be a person. I’m glad I devoted myself to Jiu Jitsu the way I did, because this was my goal. If it’s not your goal, just make sure you’re showing up.